A sex buddy is definitely a must. I guess the question is: should OP find a sex buddy other than her/his spouse?
-avanade((2b)||!(2b)=?);
2010-2-23(#14878@28)
Good ideaThere is a saying: one sex a day keeps doctor away.
-roamingufo(天外来客);
2010-6-12{51}(#15064@28)
butyou should do with someone you feel love to, not just one who can do, right?
-summerpassenger(夏日的风);
2010-6-13{76}(#15065@28)
Hard topicThis is too complicated to discuss here. I like the movie "it is complicated". Acutally it is complicated, not a simple question.
-roamingufo(天外来客);
2010-6-16{131}(#15069@28)