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I am not saying this thing bothers me, but I really not sure what to do, I meant, can A chinaman being single forever? my friends they have the same feeling with me,I meant, when god put us to this world, we come alone, right? when you sleep alone for a long time, I really don't think any necessary to sleep with a stranger, right?if your bed suddently has one more person, it is pretty nervous, right. I know, sometime I enjoy to be alone, sometime I hate it, but doesn't it everything the same.

Ok, I know what are you thinking, I am not gay, guy.

But if you can see there are so much trouble to wooing a girl, and even more trouble after her, you know, why don't we make it simpler, stay away with them, and your life maybe easier, what do you think?

And I really don't think that is a good way to meet someone by compare your ass with the guy's money, or your age or even your education, don't you think that is stupid?

I somehow somewhat convinces my mom, and my mom at least don't feel too much anxious for my marriage, but deep down I know this is the person I can never afford to hurt the least, so I maybe have to marry if my mom say so, but then I might still drop out of marriage because I can't stay with a person if I really think that isn't any worthy, I will defintely walk away,after all, it is good for both of us, right?

For those of you in the marriage, or those might be not in the marriage for a number of years, what troubles you have?and what trouble I will have?

At the end I guess my question is "Is that possible to not to marry forever?"

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