本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.

When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for
that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to
meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are!

They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up
and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has
been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent
up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come
to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make
you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They
usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real!
But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use
in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love
is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net